Tuesday, November 13, 2012

ye kaisa pyaar..!!!




hi friends m back... i know gap thoda jyada tha but kya karu kuch aisi majbooriyan thi ki net per baithne ka mauka hi nai mil pata tha. But anyways.. aj ka topic jara hat kar hai.. mujhe nahi pata kitne log is bat ka virodh karenge or kitne log sahyog.. fir bhi ye post update karna zaroori tha..

Pyaar.. ek aisa shabd jisme sari zindagi samai hai.. ek aisa ehsas jisey bayan nahi kiya ja sakta phir chahey vo dosto k beech ho parivar k sadasyon me bhai behen ka pyar ho ya fir do jodiyon ka.. akser dekha gya hai infact idhar kuch samay se mere as pas kuch aise logon ki ghatnaein hui or chal bhi rahi hain jisme do log kai sal se ek doosre ko chahtey hain shadi bhi hone wali hai

 ek joda aisa hai jiski shadi kareeb dus barah din bad hai, ek ki shadi agle saal k liye fix ho chuki hai.. ek ki mangni abhi pandrah din pehle hi hui abhi shadi ki date fix nahi hui hai..anyways.. han to main yahan bat karne ja rahi hu do jodiyon k pyaar ki, jo kai sal se ek doosre ko jantey hain or ek doosre k liye poori tarah samarpit hain.. ladkiyo me to yun bhi adat hoti hai ki ek bar kisi ko apna man liya ya kisi ko pyar kiya to uske lie na hi kuch galat bol sakti hain na hi soch sakti hain..


 even agar kabhi galati se oonchi awaaz me hi bol diya to jitni takleef saamne wale ko hoti hai shayad ussey kai guna zyada takleef usey khud hoti hai.. yahi karan hai ki vo turan sorry bol ker ya kai bar ro kar bhi khud sorry feel karti hai ki han mere se galti hui ya ye maine galaat liya to uske liye m sorry...




 but ladko k kai kases aj tak mujhe samjh nahi hai.. pehli bat ek to unme ego bahut hota hai.. doosra if u say i love you to anyone specialy ur beloved how can he b so rude to her.. man liya ki koi bat buri lag bhi gai hai to usme bat karna band kar dena kya kisi bat ka solution hai... agar aisa hai to ye kaisa pyar hai ki ap jisey khud itna pyar kartey ho usi ko itni takleef detey ho or apke oopar koi farak tak nahi padta.. in sab cheezon se to pyar per bhi shaq hota hai.. ki sach me vo vyakti apsey pyaar karta hai ya sirf dikhawa hai.. kyunki mere hisab se jo person apko pyar karta hoga atleast vo khud kabhi takleef ka karan nahi banega.. ladkihan agar kisi ko apna manti hain to unko takleef nahi de sakti... fir ladke kisi b bat ko leker apne beloved se harsh or rude kaisey ho saktey hain ye bat mujhe aj tak samajh nahi ai..kya unhey is bat ki takleef nahi hoti ki unkey rude vyavhar se unki love ka kya hal hota hoga..

mujhe nahi pta mera observation sahi hai ya galat.. magar fir bhi ap logon ki pratikriyaon ka intezaar rahega.